So what you’re feeling now, are essentially withdrawal symptoms.You might not want to admit it yet – and not a whole lot of guys are able to – but your relationship is most likely beyond saving.If she initiated the breakup and you’re shocked, then she’s way ahead of you in processing this whole thing.She probably saw it coming months ago and has been unconsciously preparing herself for this moment.There was only this other girl, who was acting irrationally and impulsively, hurting me along the way.I knew that I couldn’t hold on to something that didn’t exist anymore, so I was able to let go.It’s brutal, and if it’s happened to you, I feel for you. The emotional pain was so bad it turned into physical pain combined with the worst types of anxiety I have ever experienced. You’re going to deal with your breakup and move on. The truth is, most guys need to cut their teeth on a couple of relationships before they settle down.
When your girlfriend leaves you for another man, however, things can get even worse.
It’s very, very, very hard to say goodbye to the future you undoubtedly imagined together. You need to accept it’s over and commit yourself to moving on.
Because as long as you don’t take that step, you’re holding on to hope, you’re holding on to expectations, and you’re going to get painfully disappointed.
Believing she was the one doesn’t make any logical sense, but more than anything, it is a sign you were probably emotionally dependent on your relationship.
Were you worried more about how she felt, than how you felt?